![]() Unlike most people, INTPs do not come pre-programmed with acceptable social behaviour patterns. a mess but still somehow manages to survive in life creates drama for themself just for the fun of it just wants everyone to have a great time gets offended when someone tries to ask about their feelings is actually watching youtube videos when claims to be studying people might think that they have their shit together but in reality they have no idea what they’re doing also has zero chill but hides it and explodes on the inside seriously, no one needs to feel that much, okay? if they call you they will talk for 12 hours straight (you cannot escape) probably has sex with the concept of math really intelligent and talented in academic fields or art Lavendermidnights: the MBTI types as multiple people i know Sometimes we just happen across really awful people and learn some hard life lessons that make you value the right people. It may feel impossible now, you may feel like you’re stuck in a relationship/friendship, but when you’re ready, there’s a world of people out there to meet who will be well worth your time. Especially as someone who is probably over-empathetic, I hated thinking that I’m inconveniencing someone or offending them, but like I said, no one is worth the anxiety and stress.Īlso to anyone who needs to read this: cutting off people like this is not an easy thing to do. I’m glad to have helped and even though I don’t know you, I’m so proud of you!! Learning your own self worth and cutting off people is a lesson I’ve found to be the hardest thing to have learned thus far in my short 21 years of life, but now that I’ve finally gotten to the point, I feel so much better about myself and the relationships that I keep. I learned something from this though and I want to let any other person out there who might see this- if you have even the slightest feeling the person you’re talking to is not trustworthy or is being manipulative, please do yourself a massive favor and get out of that quick. Time to stop being pushed around by people, I’m done being an easy target. ![]() I could see how manipulative and narcissistic he was but I hate conflict so I was being nice and not trying to upset him, then I woke up. (A friend of mine just went through this issue with a really manipulative boyfriend and I thank the earth that she finally listened to me and some other friends about getting out of that situation.)Īhhh thank you for the response it really helped! I ended up cutting him off, he continued to be insensitive and only nice if it were in his favor or he could use it to get something from me. In the end, go with your gut! Even with how cool and interesting some people are, they’re not always worth the hassle, not when they cause you any unnecessary stress and anxiety. Now, if he wanted to help you to start being okay with being on the phone and you were willing, sure, that sounds nice, but that’s not what it sounds like. ![]() It’s just a phone call now, but I agree that it’s a red flag for future issues. If I am analyzing this too much Idc is rather be cautious then get involved with someone who thinks they can control me.Īs some who has dealt with some bullshit people and let people walk all over her when she was younger-are they worth it in the long run? If someone actually cared about you, they wouldn’t actively make you feel uncomfortable when you’ve directly told them that you don’t like speaking on the phone. This is what worries me, I’ve been naive in the past but not today, I won’t be toyed with by another person. He uses his words strategically, not honestly. I hate not knowing what to do or who to trust, I don’t think I can trust him at this point. I’m so content with being alone, and when I meet people like this I just feel driven further into isolation. I’m forever debating whether or not I should let this guy into my life or not, the what if’s are never ending. He thinks I have a crush on him, he thinks I think he’s the most coolest smoothest guy around, news flash I’m an INTP I FIND ROMANCE DISTURBING AND CATS ARE FOREVER COOLER THAN ANY MAN IVE MET. ![]() The words “if you really” just switch a red flag. He said “if you really want to talk to me call me.” Like uh ok who are you? I’m not gonna be told what I really want to do. Well now I’m starting to feel he may be that way, I told him I don’t like talking on the phone- yet he stills says I should call. Met a guy online in a video game (off to a bad start already, and as a girl in a video game I’m used to guys being weirdos but he wasn’t) and we hit it off pretty good- he ended up getting my number out of me after being super persistent and borderline manipulative but I didn’t want to think the worst. Why do I attract manipulative people, I have no friends for this reason.
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